Fayee'.
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Post by Fayee'. on Jan 22, 2009 18:33:20 GMT 1
Yes, my love life + my reputation with the guys is slowly going down the drain. Where do I start? Okay, Peter; we went out for 6 weeks, he was the most adorable, sweetest, caring boyfriend ever, seriously. But I liked him but there just wasn't anything, no passion and when we kissed I felt nothing. So I began to start ignoring him and I yes I know this will sound awful but I started liking his best friend. Some how Peter found out, and broke up with me. I wasn't gutted, but wasn't exactly best pleased. So now im stuck; I don't know what to do about Jake (Peters best friend who i fancy the socks off and boy he knows i do) I mean I have two lessons a week with him, French, and we get on fine theres no akwardness even though he knows how much I like him but I just dont think he feels the same way back and it might be a tad akward if he went out with me because he is Peter's best friend and me and Peter still aren't talking. I just don't know what to do
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Post by gems on Jan 22, 2009 18:56:34 GMT 1
Awww faye, I'm feeling bad for Peter You should have broken up with him officially if you weren't that into him, it's much better than just ignoring him and flirting with his best mate. I can't say I'm surprised that he ended things when he found out.. It sounds like you have it pretty bad for this Jake guy. How does he feel about you? Is he looking for a relationship? I mean if you both really like each other, then you should try and get things started. Yeah, Peter is going to feel really hurt but you can't help your feelings. But you do need to apologize to Peter. He deserved to be treated better and I can understand why he wouldn't want to talk to you. That being said, at least now you can learn from this and hopefully things will patch up between the two of you and remaining friends might not be totally out of the question. As long as you let him know that you hadn't intentionally meant to hurt him and that you are sorry, then he really should not hold a grudge too long. Hopefully he's the kind of guy who would want you to be happy, even if you would be happier with his best friend. In future, I recommend you be more honest with how you feel. If you are not attracted to someone, it's best to let them down easy..
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Fayee'.
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Post by Fayee'. on Jan 23, 2009 17:07:11 GMT 1
I feel sorry for Peter too and now yeah I do feel awful for what I've done and wish I hadn't.
As for Jake, I'll just see how it goes I suppose, he's not the most forward guy ever because if he likes somebody he tends not to tell anybody.
So I'll just have to see how it all goes; and if I will try and say sorry to Peter, if he'll let me.
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Post by *~*Alia*~* on Jan 23, 2009 23:31:53 GMT 1
I dunno Faye, dating his best friend probably isn't going to lead to anything good...
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Post by Fayee'. on Jan 24, 2009 11:27:39 GMT 1
Haha well; alot has happened in the space of 24 hours.
Jake, is completely ignoring me, god knows what I've done now. I texted ryan asking for Peters number so I could apologise, but he didn't have it. But he is seeing Peter tomorrow and he's going to try and explain everything to Peter and say just how sorry I am and My best mate Hannah thinks it would be a good idea for me and Peter to go back out because we were talking and I said that yeah I could live with the that fact Jake wants to date other people; but the thought of Peter walking around holding somebody else's hand, that almost had me in tears. So Hannah said that she thinks subconsciously I still have very strong feelings for Peter.
So yeah I'll see what happens when Ryan see's him tomorrow....
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Post by Dr.Lucy-Rose is back on Mar 24, 2009 17:53:04 GMT 1
To be honest i'd leave it. If that's what it was like when you were with Peter you should tell him you thought you liked him but instead you loved him as a friend and it took you a while to realise it. As with Jake... I'm not the sort of girl to go crazy over boys- I get crushes on the weirdest people and have a bad taste in men aparently so asking me who to datewith is a bad idea... But i'll tell you what i tell all teenage girls- You'll have so many chances with different boys you'll fall in love, minusing one from the equasion is probably a good idea considering you are still a teenager! Don't worry about it Faye, justkeeping living life and don't bother with them yet (By them i mean boys)
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Post by Fayee'. on May 4, 2009 10:49:23 GMT 1
Lol. I just happen to agree with that Lucy, I've had so much stress with guys' over the past few months I dont' know why I bother. Theres' been tears, falling out, argueing and other endless shite. So for now, I might even just consider putting my head down and start focusing on my GCSE'S.
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