Post by gems on Jan 10, 2009 22:29:46 GMT 1
So erm.. yeah, last night I went out and got a little drunk (not excessively, I was still standing at the end of the night haha) but I just have been a bit...urgh.. all day now. Not a hangover mind, I don't mean it like that but just the things I remember from the night out. Actually I'm more pissed off.
You see me and my mates went to a few clubs and in one of them there was this guy who, you know, did that whole 'eye-contact' thing and I wasn't going to dance with him, he wasn't really my type but my friends noticed him looking and they (literally) pushed me into him. Well that was awkward and I think he totally got the wrong impression of me because he wouldn't go away after that and I ended up dancing with him despite my first thoughts not too. Anyway my mates were laughing at me because he was getting pretty close (I mean really close) and I was in that drunk frame of mind where you just go along with it all, not really giving a d**n.
Moving on.. I finally was just like, that's enough and went back to my friends and he was all cool about it. Then a couple of songs later I noticed him and his mates still dancing nearby and suddenly his mate is behind me and pulls me away for dance. I mean I didn't mind so much because when we talked he seemed nice but I just got the feeling that he had seen the way I'd been with his friend and was expecting me to be that way with him..and well, as you might imagine, I don't much like being treated like this thing to be passed around. Plus I found it weird that they were both mates and 'after me'. I mean at one point the first guy came back while I was chatting to his mate and tried to start this threesome type dance thing which really creeped me out so I left them both to go back with my mates. though they still hoovered around so I just quit dancing and we left soon after.
I guess the reason I'm pissed off is more the way I was treated last night. I mean there was another guy outside the club who while my friends were chatting, tried to -literally- pick me up over the banister back into the club, luckily at that point my friends did actually stick up for me and told him where to go. but most of the night they pushed me into these guys because I'm usually shy and they think I need a little encouragement but it's hell annoying as then the guys get the wrong impression. Basically I felt like everyone was treating me like a rag doll I just wanted to have a night out with my friends but waking up this morning, I don't feel I got that and I can't help cringing with how things turned out. So there's my little rant and now I feel a little less like crap.
You see me and my mates went to a few clubs and in one of them there was this guy who, you know, did that whole 'eye-contact' thing and I wasn't going to dance with him, he wasn't really my type but my friends noticed him looking and they (literally) pushed me into him. Well that was awkward and I think he totally got the wrong impression of me because he wouldn't go away after that and I ended up dancing with him despite my first thoughts not too. Anyway my mates were laughing at me because he was getting pretty close (I mean really close) and I was in that drunk frame of mind where you just go along with it all, not really giving a d**n.
Moving on.. I finally was just like, that's enough and went back to my friends and he was all cool about it. Then a couple of songs later I noticed him and his mates still dancing nearby and suddenly his mate is behind me and pulls me away for dance. I mean I didn't mind so much because when we talked he seemed nice but I just got the feeling that he had seen the way I'd been with his friend and was expecting me to be that way with him..and well, as you might imagine, I don't much like being treated like this thing to be passed around. Plus I found it weird that they were both mates and 'after me'. I mean at one point the first guy came back while I was chatting to his mate and tried to start this threesome type dance thing which really creeped me out so I left them both to go back with my mates. though they still hoovered around so I just quit dancing and we left soon after.
I guess the reason I'm pissed off is more the way I was treated last night. I mean there was another guy outside the club who while my friends were chatting, tried to -literally- pick me up over the banister back into the club, luckily at that point my friends did actually stick up for me and told him where to go. but most of the night they pushed me into these guys because I'm usually shy and they think I need a little encouragement but it's hell annoying as then the guys get the wrong impression. Basically I felt like everyone was treating me like a rag doll I just wanted to have a night out with my friends but waking up this morning, I don't feel I got that and I can't help cringing with how things turned out. So there's my little rant and now I feel a little less like crap.