Rae
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Oct 19, 2008 3:13:33 GMT 1
Post by Rae on Oct 19, 2008 3:13:33 GMT 1
I feel so bad cause I've made so many threads in this section, but I just keep having issues.
There's this guy at school who one of my friends dated for a day and then they broke up and went out with one of her friends whom he broke up with on that friend's birthday. My friend really hates him and recently he's been following me around school talking to me and he's been nice to me, but I feel really bad becuase he lied to my friend and she hates him, but I can't tell him to go away because, well, he's one of the first guys at my school who's ever been nice to me and he never did anything to me. But I feel like I'm betraying my friend by talking to him and I don't know what I should do. ......Does that make any sense?
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Oct 19, 2008 3:23:16 GMT 1
Post by duckduckcaboose on Oct 19, 2008 3:23:16 GMT 1
True friends should never make you choose between them, so if either of them is pressuring you to ditch the other one, you should NOT put up with that. If you are feeling guilty on your own, talk to both of them about the other's feelings, as well as your own.
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Oct 19, 2008 11:43:27 GMT 1
Post by gems on Oct 19, 2008 11:43:27 GMT 1
I agree with duck, true friends wouldn't let a guy come between your friendship. On the other hand, this guy does not sound like he is worth your time. I'm sure he was real sweet and nice to your other friends as well before he dumped them (it sounds like he's a bit of a player and pretty much uses girls). I mean, breaking up with someone on their birthday? And dating an ex's friend? You might be better off without his attentions...
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Oct 19, 2008 15:07:09 GMT 1
Post by *~*Alia*~* on Oct 19, 2008 15:07:09 GMT 1
Did either of them actually ask you not to talk to him? If they didn't, you shouldn't feel like you're betraying anyone. On the other hand, you should take their advice and experiences into consideration. He can be really nice, I'm sure, but don't get attatched to him or anything, because there's a good chance he's being insincere. If either of your friends says something, explain the situation to them completely. They'll understand, and if they try to pressure you to stay away from him, it's because they care about you and don't want you to get hurt.
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Rae
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Oct 19, 2008 16:23:48 GMT 1
Post by Rae on Oct 19, 2008 16:23:48 GMT 1
Thanks guys! *group huggles*
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