Fayee'.
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Trying to catch your heart is like trying to catch a star,(:
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Post by Fayee'. on Jul 18, 2008 16:51:46 GMT 1
how the heck are you meant to work out weather a boy likes you as a mate or he like like's you?
because i am proper confused! i mean mixed signals galore! right theres jake the shy, content, goodlooking one. he has been proper friendly lately, being nice to me, having little plaay fights. but then the other day he just blew his top! he had a right old rant at everybody (including me) says how much he hated us all and wished we would all f**k off.
i mean bit of help here mate, does he like me, just wanna be friends or what!?
then theres niall. well he just flirts like mad and everybody thinks he fancies me but i havent heard it from his lips. thats the issue with me i make best mates with all the boys then they all tend to like me more than other girls because they get to know me more!
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Post by gems on Jul 18, 2008 21:15:27 GMT 1
well i think maybe you should think about who you like. it sounds like they both like you (maybe Jake has some issues of his own to sort out but if he was having a rant at everyone, i wouldn't take it too personally). the question is, who do you want to like you? if you even like either of them, then if you decide you do fancy one of them, i suggest making it clear to them rather than waiting for them to make a move. it sounds like you are pretty at ease with guys in general which might put a guy off from 'making his move' on you as their would be competition lol ...which might be why they all switch from being your mate to flirting with you
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Post by Simply "V" on Jul 20, 2008 2:04:49 GMT 1
^Good advice gems. This is not the 50s when girls/women had to play at being coy and shy. If you like one of these guys and they're sending mixed signals then take the bull by the horn and just let them know. I'm not saying that you should throw yourself at them but making it clear that you like someone as more than a friend will save you a lot of 'does he, doesn't he' headaches. Just be sure that you realllly like the guy before you lay it on the line.
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Fayee'.
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Trying to catch your heart is like trying to catch a star,(:
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Post by Fayee'. on Jul 22, 2008 18:08:00 GMT 1
i've just decided to stay mates with all the boys that like me (: but some harmless flirting every now and then never hurt anybody
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